On Short Hair

I read this article and thought it was so beautifully written and just had to share it.

ON SHORT HAIR (c1988)
from American(?) Vogue
by Joan Juliet Buck 

Joan Juliet Buck, a devoted short-hair convert, explains why it makes a difference. 

Hair is time.

Women with short hair always look as if they have somewhere else to go. Women with long hair tend to look as if they belong where they are, especially in California. Short hair takes a short time. Long hair takes a long time. Long hair moves faster than short hair. Long hair tells men that you are all woman, or a real woman, or at the very least a girl. Short hair always makes them wonder. Short hair makes children ask each other —usually at the school-yard gate, when parents are late— “Are you a boy or girl?” Men married to women with short hair should not have affairs with women who have long hair kept up with many little pins and combs. Once you have cut your hair you have to remember to wear lipstick, but you can put away the brush, elastics, and the black barrettes in the form of shiny leaves with rhinestone hearts. When you cut your hair you lose a nose and gain a neck. A neck is generally better than a nose. It does not need to be powdered, except on extreme occasions. It does, however, need to be washed more often.

With short hair you suddenly dislike the month of March, when the wind blows down the back of your neck. With short hair you begin to crave pearl necklaces, long earrings, and a variety of sunglasses. And you brush your teeth more often. Short hair removes obvious femininity and replaces it with style. When it starts growing out a little and losing its style, you have to wear sunglasses until you can get it to the hairdresser. That’s why you need a variety. Short hair makes you aware of subtraction as style. You can no longer wear puffed sleeves or ruffles; the neat is suddenly preferable to the fussy. You eye the tweezers instead of the blusher. What else can you take away? You can’t hide behind short hair. Your nape is exposed. Men put their hands around your neck instead of stroking your long locks. You can only pray they have friendly intentions. The backs of your ears show, your jaw line is clear to anyone watching, and you realize —perhaps for the first time— how wide the expanse of skin is between cheekbone and ear.

You may look a little androgynous, a little unfinished, a little bare. You will look elegant, as short hair requires you to keep your weight slightly below acceptable levels. However, the first time you wear a bathing suit with short hair, you will feel exceptionally naked. People who used to look straight at you will love you in profile. Short hair makes others think you have good bones, determination, and an agenda. The shape of your skull is commented on, so are its contents. They can pick you out in a crowd, and you can be recognized from behind, which can be good or bad. But your face is no longer a flat screen surrounded by a curtain: the world sees you in three dimensions.

Chase to the cut.
(source)

Break Time

Not that it hasn’t been obvious, but I’m taking a bit of a hiatus. With family vacations, freelancing and some promising job leads, I’ve been/will be a bit busy. So I just want to take a moment to breathe, and the I’ll be back and ready to go on the 17th!

Pattern Play

date 09-28-2011
outfit
scarf: American Eagle
tee: Old Navy
skirt: Forever21
flats: ModCloth

This scarf marks the beginning of my love affair with bold patterned scarves. They’re all I want to by now because they make it so easy to make an outfit special. This week I got some new freelancing opportunities (an hour away, which explains the lack of posts) and it was this scarf that I grabbed to add pizzaz.

I love the combination of patterns, and this outfit overall! Dressing up simple tees? Yes please!

In the navy

date 09-26-2011
outfit

top: J. Crew / thrifted
skirt: LOFT / thrifted
flats: ModCloth
earrings: New York & Co.

Some outfits just make themselves. Classic black and navy is always a great color palette to build an outfit from. I had actually wanted to add a bright pink belt (inspired by Julie of Orchid Grey), but the belt fits my natural waist and this skirt hits me slightly below that so unfortunately it didn’t work out.

Not much more to say, just one of those days I guess. I’m going to blame it on the wicked storms that have been rolling through all day and have been making me want to wear nothing but my leggings and an oversized tee.

Birds of a Feather

date 09-26-2011
outfit

top: Target
jeans: Old Navy
sandals: RackRoom Shoes
necklaces: American Eagle

Easy outfit today, and probably every Monday for a while because I now work M/T/W in Richmond and I usually don’t get around to packing for the stay in the city until Monday morning. So I need an easy, no-nonsense look to throw on at the last minute. This feathery blouse from Target fits the bill.

Now that October is less than a week away, I feel weird wearing shorts to work, but with the weather lately, it’s not exactly stockings-and-sweater time either. I compromised with jeans and a light, swingy top. Turns out, it’s Siberia in the office and I was a Carissacicle all day. But at least I looked good. Right? Wrong. I’m bringing cardigans in everyday, regardless of how well they go with my look. There is a limit to letting fashion trump everything, and that’s when my fingers turn purple.

Also, I’d like to take a moment to mention the “style blogger” commercial by T.J. Maxx. Specifically, the line about how the blogger “posts her outfits almost everyday, and needs to shop about as much.” As someone who sometimes struggles with how many pieces of clothes I purchase each month (especially since starting this blog), I really don’t appreciate any store exploiting this weakness for their own gain. I’ve read more than a few posts by other women in similar situations, and I think that it’s a problem that not many style/fashion bloggers discuss openly, and they really should. There are a few bloggers doing something to help (whether intentionally or not, I’m not sure) like Kendi and her 30-for-30, which I think helps teach us to utilize what we already have in our wardrobe to the fullest.

Ok, I’ll step off my soapbox now.

A small change in pace

Sorry about the two random posts! I am working on a new element to the blog that involves Polyvore, and it seems to have gone a bit nuts.

As for the new segment on the blog, I was thinking that, rather than going AWOL on the days that life gets in the way of photographing my daily looks, I’d do some Polyvore sets. For example, remixing one item 3 ways, themed outfits, or looks that incorporate recent trends.

And on days I’m just really unhappy with what I came up with, I would do a post called “Wish I Wore,” where I post what I wore, why it doesn’t work, and a set that utilizes one or more of the items from that outfit in a better way.

Would any of you have interest in reading posts like that?

Just for fun, here’s a set of what I wore today, since I was running errands from 12-7 and didn’t get back until after dark:

09-23-11

date 09-23-2011

outfit
top: Target
jeans:
 Old Navy
shoes: Old Navy
necklace: Handmade paper bead necklace / gift